Your Subconscious Mind is DEAF so stop talking to it and…

Your Subconscious Mind is DEAF so stop talking to it and… feed it some pictures, mind pictures or images that is.

I’ve heard and read for years that your subconscious mind does not “hear” negatives, but yesterday I was listening to The Success Principals by Jack Canfield and he went on to explain that the subconscious mind does not “hear” the negative because the subconscious mind deals only in images.

This was a revelation to me. I have intellectually understood the concept of the universe not hearing a negative such as I don’t want to go to the meeting or I don’t want to eat breakfast and the universe hearing I want to go to the meeting or I want to eat breakfast. Well it’s more than that. Your subconscious doesn’t HEAR so what it gets from our words is Your Subconscious Mind is DEAF so stop talking to it and - brainthe image those words evoke and guess what – when we use negatives it recieves an image of …. you guessed it … an image of what you don’t want.

Yesterday this came home to me on a new level. It was an A-HA moment for me.

Our subconscious mind is our helper. It will go to work to help us create the images we send to it. It does NOT judge that image. It does not ask WHY we want that image. It does not ask us if we are sure that is the image what we want. It gets an image and goes to work seeking to find and bring into your experience anything and everything to HELP us create the IMAGE — NOT the reverse of the image.

The more we repeatedly send the same image the more time and effort it puts into finding people places and things to show up in our life to help us achieve this image. Add emotion to this repeated image and violá it starts appearing faster. The rub is we unconsciously put a lot of emotion into things we don’t want expecting them to change.

Just think about how often we use our mind images in a way we don’t intend.

  • Stop playing with you food – creates an image of – playing with your food.
  • Don’t slam the door – creates an image of – slamming the door
  • I don’t want to buy a red car – creates an image of – buying a red car
  • I don’t like it when you’re late – creates an image of – seeing the person arrive late
  • I don’t want a Pepsi – creates an image of – a Pepsi
  • I’m afraid to fly – creates an image of – being afraid of flying
  • Don’t you dare leave this house – creates an image of – leaving this house
  • This is a terrible market – creates an image of – a terrible market

Now we can start using our words to create images instead to get what we intend. If we send a differnent message we will get a different image and get a different result.

  • Enjoy your breafast.
  • Close the door gently on your way out
  • I see myself driving a blue car
  • It makes me smile when you arrive timely
  • I could really enjoy a Coke
  • I truly delight in flying
  • I find joy in having you around the house
  • The market is improving and I see signs of it every day

Which mind images are you sending to your subconscious? Are they the images you are intending to create in your life?

Either way your HELPER is working night and day to bring you EXACTLY the image you are sending to it.

Kathryn
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Speachless Sunday at our River Cottage

Speachless Sunday at our River Cottage

I’ve never done a Speachless Sunday before, but yesterday we spent Halloween Day at our River Cottage and I had a couple of shots to share. One is Henry at the tiller while sailing on the Pamlico River and the other is sunset looking over the river just before Trick-or-Treaters started to arrive.




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URGENT! – Virus Protection Software

URGENT!Virus Protection Software – I need your help!

My hard-drive diagnostics showed a impending failure. Dell said it is under warranty and sent out a new drive. My computer guy is going to upgrade the operating system to Windows 7 this coming week.URGENT! - Virus Protection Software - computer image

I am NOT happy with my Virus Protection Software and this would be a great time to make a change.

  • I will not use NORTON
  • I will no longer use MCAFEE (used to)
  • I have CA (Computer Associates) – which I liked when it was eTrust but now that Road Runner bought it – it has gone downhill in my opinion and is causing massive conflicts with my Outlook

So where do I go for a good Internet Security software package? I would appreciate any help you can give me on this.

I have had one suggestion: AVG Internet Security and I am considering it – BUT before I make a change I’d love to hear from some folks about what they might be using and how they like it.

Kathryn
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Emerald Isle NC – Best Massage Therapist

I want to introduce you Kay Provetero, Emerald Isle NC – Best Massage TherapistEmerald Isle NC - Best Massage Therapist - Kay Provetero. I have used Kay and her services since 2003 when I moved to the Crystal Coast. She has impressed me over the years with her knowledge, skill and zest for learning.

This morning she called me at 7:14am to remind me of my 8:00am appointment. You see I am prone to being busy and forgetting now an again so Kay helps me by reminding me of my appointment with a phone call and a cheery voice. What else would you expect from Emerald Isle NC – Best Massage Therapist? At the end of our session this morning I took out my phone to snap a couple of shots so I could share my appreciation of her work with you.

Kay taught school in some distant past and she’s being studying and practicing body work for more than 20 years now. I Emerald Isle NC - Best Massage Therapist - Wall of Certificateswasn’t exagerating in the least when I said Kay has a zest for learning. She takes body work training in a variety of modalities almost on a monthly basis. She has a certificate wall in her office – but that is only a sample of all the ones she has earned over the years.

Kay, the Emerald Isle NC – Best Massage Therapist, does many kinds of body work I’m not sure I can accurately recite them all. She does traditional massage, relaxation and Sweedish deep tissue. She also does Craniosacral (my favorite), NST, Miofacial Release, Kaya Regeneration Therapy, she’s a student of Visceral Manipulation, she has studied Trager Therapy and so many others that I don’t know all their names.
Emerald Isle NC - Best Massage Therapist - Body Charts
She knows, finds, and names body parts that I never knew existed. Kay’s not a big woman, but don’t under estimate her power. Gosh she knows exactly the spot to apply pressure.

I’m sure it won’t surprise you to learn that Kay loves her toys too from healing lights, lasers, aromatherapy and my favorite the Amethyst Biomat. Some therapist charge extra if you want to have your massage on the Biomat with Kay it’s just part of the service. Speaking of charges, Kay’s rate will surprise you too. Even though her services are on par with the Spas her rates are considerably lower. Expect to pay well under $100 for 60 minutes or 90 minutes.

You might expect that being the Emerald Isle NC – Best Massage Therapist, she has a good following of clients and you would be correct. Island visitors make their reservations for their vacation rental and their massage way in advance. Island locals usually have standing appointments. Kay doesn’t do email so you will have to give her a call 252-393-2087. Don’t be surprised if a man answers her secretary/husband may be the one answering your call and helping you arrange the appointment. Kay is located in Keystone Station on Highway 24 – 907 WB McLean Blvd – Cape Carteret.

I’ve been to spas, my favorite being Miraval in Tucson AZ, and I can tell you Kay is right up Emerald Isle NC - Best Massage Therapist - Keystone Station Signthere with the best. Living at the coast we have our hidden secrets and now and again we even share them with special people so consider yourself special.

If you are lucky enough to get an appointmnet – tell Kay I sent you!

Kathryn
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The 4 letter word that will send buyers out the door

The 4 letter word that will send buyers out the door as fast as they can go and never look back. This is a word that Real Estate educator, Bill Gallagher, spoke about last week in our Mandatory Update class and had everyone laughing. Yesterday when it happened to me I was NOT laughing. That 4 letter word is FLEA. The size of a spec of dust these little creatures have the power to turn me into a gyrating, gasping, goofy lady slapping at her clothes and grasping for seemingly non-existent somethings as they jump out of my way.

The flea was a funny matter last week as Bill Gallagher talked about an agent in her white pantyhose – fleas love the color white – entering a home infested with fleas only to turn and escort her buyers outside and returning to remove her pantyhose and leave them on the floor. He went on making the room laugh again and again as he made his points hit home. Oh his words came to mind again for me yesterday, but I wasn’t laughing. I was trying to pinch the little critters between my thumb and forefinger — mostly unsuccessfully — before they could jump away.
The 4 letter word that will send buyers out the door - FLEA
Facts about fleas:

  • They can jump as high as 4 feet
  • They feed on blood
  • They can live up to 100 days without food in the coccoon stage unfed
  • Once fed they live 3 to 4 months
  • Once feed a female can lay up to 2000 eggs during her life
  • Female lays eggs within 36-48 hours of a meal
  • Gestation period is 14 days
  • Only 5% of fleas found in a dwelling will be on the pet
  • Very tiny up to 1/8 inch in size
  • They can bite up to 400 times a day

When you treat for fleas you must take into account all 4 stages of a flea from adult, young (hide in a cocoon until food is near), larvae and the egg stage. Most sprays will not penetrate the cocoon. The cocoon is a shell used by the young where they hide inside until a warm meal passes by then they “unzip” and hop on for a bite. Once fed they reproduce and the cycle starts over again. In addition to treating you should vacuum every day and a half to two days for at least two weeks (gestation period) to pull up all the cocoons and eggs. You must either toss the bag after each vacuuming or add moth balls to the bag. Moth balls? Well it has been used for years to kill the larvae of moths in your closet so why not the larvae of fleas in your vacuum cleaner bag. Now your house won’t smell like a spring breeze, but if it does the trick you’ll be sighing with relief as you inhale that pungent scent.

Now to complete my story of yesterday. I had to measure the inside of a new listing. It is a fixer upper to say the least. The Bonnie of Green Key Propertiesowner resides outside the area and recently had a non-paying tenants that had to be evicted. Bonnie, my dog, was in the car because I don’t take her into property, but when I got to the door to unlock it — it was slightly ajar. With no power on and the bad tenant history I went back to the car and got Bonnie dog out and took her in with me.

Well believe it or not I did NOT notice the fleas until we had measured and returned to the office. Then they were jumping on and off me as I sat at my computer. I had to go into the bathroom take off my top and pick off the fleas. The were on my “white” socks under my jeans. I even picked a couple off Bonnie’s face. Figuring I didn’t want them infesting the office I went to Ace Hardware and got a couple of bombs and let them off and headed home to brush Bonnie figuring it couldn’t be that bad right. Keeping her outside I began brushing, but after finding a half dozen fleas crawling on her we headed for the tub and a flea bath. A shampoo, 30 dead fleas and a final coating of flea dip later she was briskly running around to thank me. Next we washed her bed from the office and just for good measure the one from home too. I have a healthy (or unhealthy) dose of bites myself and would love to douse my body in some flea dip if it would help the itching!

Beware of this four letter word as you enter vacant dwellings! FLEA

See my article on: Bill Gallagher teaches at the Crystal Coast for some Halloween Fun

Kathryn
Gorham | Sun-Surf
Realty
| Emerald Isle North Carolina
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